How to Have A Quickie: Vella's Quick Sex Tips

Focusing too much on how to have a quickie can ruin the experience. The keys to a hot, steamy quickie are spontaneity and urgent need. Without these two factors, it’s really just ordinary, routine sex.

There’s nothing wrong with ordinary sex, but a quickie is meant to be a response to a desperate longing. That hurried desperation to achieve satisfaction is exactly what makes quickies so thrilling.

How To Have a Quickie

A quickie is exactly what it sounds like—a speedy sex session. A quickie can give you all the thrills and chills without taking up too much time. 

1. Just Go for It!

“You look so hot and sexy. I want you right NOW! Just let me finish washing the dishes first.” Major mood killer. The best quickies are often completely spontaneous. 

When the mood strikes, just do it! Drop everything else, and concentrate on the opportunity at hand. You don’t even have to pause to remove clothes. Sometimes, a few stolen minutes of pure, immediate pleasure are just what you need. 

2. Build Anticipation

If you’ve just summoned your partner for a spur-of-the-moment booty call, don’t waste a single second. While waiting for your SO to arrive, send a few dirty texts, let a fantasy play out in your mind, strip your clothes off, touch yourself until you’re all hot and bothered—you get the idea!

3. Experiment With Wild Locations

Is the craziest sex location you can swing your kitchen table or bathroom counter? Then go for it! Anything that’s out of the ordinary will work! Just make the few moments you have count. 

For those seeking even more thrilling hot spots and who love the idea of possibly getting caught in the act, consider these adventurous locations for fast and wild sex:

• Fitting room
• Public restroom
• Your car
• Nature trail
• Desk at work
• Beach
• Elevator
• Supply closet
• Movie theater
• Stairwell
• Nightclub

4. Get Rid of Expectations & Inhibitions  

Having a predetermined vision of how a quickie should go will probably lead to disappointment. Approach a quickie with an open mind. Let go of your insecurities, and enjoy being bold and brazen. 

The whole point of a quickie is to give yourself and your partner as much pleasure as possible in a short amount of time. Don’t limit the experience by not living in the moment. Go with the flow, and have fun!

5. Make It as Hot as Possible!

When going for a quickie, time is ticking. Foreplay is fantastic, but there won’t be time for a lot of that. So, focus on getting down and dirty as quickly as possible. 

You know what turns you both on. Think about that, and then kick it up a notch or two. For instance, if your partner loves dirty talk, give him lots of it, and make it much dirtier than usual. 

For the Men…

It’s pretty much a given that you will finish. Your woman, however, might have trouble reaching orgasm in such a short time span. She might be fine with that, but why neglect her needs? 

Try starting your quickie by giving her oral sex. Just be sure you’re doing it safely. Then, during penetrating sex, use those magic fingers to stimulate her most sensitive regions. You might even find that you both reach orgasm at the same time, which can be incredibly satisfying.

For the Ladies…

It’s no secret that climaxing can be a challenge. Give yourself an edge by self-stimulating while your man is busy thrusting. Adding a vibrator to the mix can work too.

Mental imagery can play a huge role as well. Let yourself fantasize about whatever gets your juices flowing. 

Talking dirty isn’t just for men. It can be very liberating and empowering to verbalize all those dirty words and thoughts running through your mind during sex. Just make sure you know what your partner likes to hear and you stay within your own boundaries.

Put all these tricks to use, and you should find yourself growing closer and closer to that explosive release you crave.

9 Incredible Ways Quickies Benefit You

We all know just how good sex can feel, but did you know that sex, no matter how fast or hurried, is actually good for you? It’s true. Any form of consensual sex can be beneficial to your physical, mental, and emotional health.

1. Strengthen Your Immune System

Clinical studies have found that an increased frequency of sex leads to an improved response from the immune system. This means that the more sex you have, the better able your body will be to fend off illness and disease.

When you are involved in sexual activity, a powerful flood of hormones is released, including dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and endorphins. 

These feel-good hormones stimulate the body to increase the number of lymphocytes and immunoglobulins, which fight off harmful pathogens. They also help lower cortisol levels, which reduces inflammation and allows the immune system to function optimally. 

2. Relieve Stress and Pain

Unfortunately, many of us live with stress on a daily basis. Pain, whether from injury, a chronic issue, inflammation, or something else, is another common complaint. The good news is that sex helps to manage both!

Sexual activity significantly lowers stress levels thanks to the drop in cortisol and surge of feel-good hormones. Intercourse and orgasms aren’t the only triggers here. Kissing, hugging, touching, and even solo play can have similar effects.

Having sex releases analgesic chemicals that naturally block pain. It’s also thought that sex raises your threshold for pain, which means that pain no longer feels as severe as it once did.

3. Enhance Your Bond With Your Partner

Participating in spur-of-the-moment sex (or any kind of sex) with someone you care for deeply is a fantastic way to deepen your bond and connect on a more meaningful level. 

You learn a lot about your partner during sex, such as what noises they make, what turns them on and off, what their facial expressions mean, what their most sensitive spots are, etc. The more you know about one another, the closer you’ll feel. 

4. Lower Blood Pressure and Risk of Heart Attack

Even sex in the form of a quickie provides important cardiovascular benefits. For one thing, sex can be quite a cardio workout, leading to a stronger heart and better endurance. Sex also helps to reduce stress levels and improve sleep, which are important for heart health and may help protect against heart disease.

Additionally, sex with a partner has been found to lower systolic blood pressure. Healthier blood pressure means a lower risk of a heart attack. 

5. Improve Sleep

Even a brief period of sex can be exhausting, but it’s not just the physical activity that helps you sleep well. Several chemicals and hormones are released during and after sex that make you feel content, relaxed, and tired. These include oxytocin, prolactin, vasopressin, and serotonin.

When you experience an orgasm, even more of this chemical cocktail flows through your body, making you even more relaxed and ready for some quality sleep. 

6. Boost Confidence and Self-Esteem

Everyone loves to feel desired, and knowing that your partner wants you so desperately can be a massive turn-on. It can also give your ego and self-esteem a much-needed boost. 

It doesn’t matter if your body is less than perfect. You are the object of your partner’s desire, and you have what it takes to satisfy that all-consuming need. What could give you a bigger shot of confidence than that? 

7. Elevates Mood

Research has shown that sex, no matter how long it lasts, can positively impact your mood and continue to do so the next day as well. This surge of happiness is directly related to the release of oxytocin, known as the love hormone, and other chemicals in the body. 

However, sex is also a great stress reliever, helps you sleep better at night, and reduces pain, all of which can elevate your mood as well. Feeling closer to your partner and incredibly desirable helps lift your spirits too.

8. Improve Libido

Have you ever noticed that the more you have sex, the more sex you want? It’s not just you. There is a biological reason for this. Your brain quickly learns to associate certain stimuli with favorable outcomes. This is known as the reward system. 

In this case, the stimulus is sexual activity, and the outcome, or reward, is pleasure. It’s not too surprising that we quickly learn to seek that which results in reward.

The more sex you have, the better you become and the bigger your reward, so it’s no wonder you’ll want more and more!

9. Strengthen Pelvic Floor

Frequent sex and orgasms can tone and strengthen the pelvic floor, making sex more enjoyable overall. 

A healthy, strong pelvic floor can lead to pain-free sex, increased natural lubrication, and stronger, more frequent orgasms. A strong pelvic floor also helps avoid bladder leakage later in life.

How Vella Can Take a Quickie to New Levels 

Having sex before your body has produced natural lubrication can be uncomfortable and even painful, and quickies don’t allow much time for women to become aroused, let alone reach climax. 

Thankfully, Vella is here to help. We offer several feminine lubes and lotions that can get you where you need to be as quickly as possible.

• Women’s Pleasure Serum: This water-based lotion with CBD isolate is clinically proven to boost natural lubrication, increase arousal, and promote easier, longer, and more intense orgasms.
• Super Slip & Slide: This silicone-based lube provides long-lasting slickness for more comfortable sex while hydrating and nourishing your delicate skin at the same time.
• Women’s Intimate Elixir: This water-based lube was created for women experiencing a drop in estrogen but is not just for those dealing with menopause. Anyone wanting instant lubrication that lasts will love it.

Five Explosive Positions for Quickies

Sometimes the difference between a rock-your-world quickie and one that is just so-so is simply a matter of positioning. 

Experimenting with a variety of different positions can increase the enjoyment for both you and your partner. So get out of your comfort zone, and have a blast trying something new and exciting.

1. Stairway to Heaven

On a staircase, kneel in front of your partner a step above them. Both of you should be facing the stairs with your bodies pressed tightly together. While you hold onto the banister or the stairs, your partner will grab your hips and thrust inside. 

This pose allows the penetrating partner to enter at an upward tilt, giving him unlimited access to your G-spot. 

2. Twist and Shout


Lie on a surface (like an office desk, tabletop, car hood, etc.) that is hip-level with your partner. While you twist your legs to one side, your partner will stay standing and enter you from the side.

This position not only gives a new angle but also adds more friction because your legs are pressed together as your partner thrusts. 

3. Rock 'n' Roll

Lie on your back, bringing your knees up to your chin. Your partner will lie on top of you while you rest your calves on the back of his shoulders. For extra leverage, grab hold of his upper arms while he moves inside you.

You can adjust how widely or narrowly you have your legs spread. The wider you spread, the deeper your lover can penetrate.

4. The Python

Have your lover lie flat on his back with legs together and arms at his sides. You will straddle him on your knees, lowering yourself onto him. Once he's fully inside you, slowly stretch out so you're lying right on top of him, aligned limb to limb. 

Use your hands and arms to glide and slither back and forth. For added leverage, ask him to keep his feet flexed so you can push against them with your toes.

Enjoy the sensations of your nipples rubbing against your partner’s chest, your thighs warming under the friction, and the stimulation of your clitoris against his skin.

5. Pillow Party

Pile several pillows beneath your upper body so that you are in a semi-reclined position. Your partner will kneel before you, lifting your legs and resting them on either side of his hips. 

He can use his hands to stroke your clitoris or breasts while entering. This position offers simultaneous stimulation to both of you.

Don’t Overthink a Quickie—Just Enjoy!

A quickie should be spontaneous, not too long, and oh-so delightfully intense. Avoid putting too much thought into it. Rather, live in the moment and make every second as hot and steamy as possible. Be bold. Be brazen. Have fun!

Men shouldn’t be the only ones to climax! Our Women’s Pleasure Serum can help you achieve an earth-shattering orgasm, even when time is tight. 

FAQ

How long is a quickie?

Although most people would say that a typical quickie lasts 5-10 minutes, the truth is that there is no real timeframe. A quickie can be as short as 2-3 minutes or as long as half an hour. It really depends on your definition of quick and your expectations for the experience.

Can women really have quickies?

Women can absolutely enjoy quickies. The imminent threat of being discovered can be a massive turn-on for some women while others are highly aroused by their partner’s intense desire. 

However, whether or not the woman reaches climax depends on the extent of lovemaking and the stimulation provided. 

Can women have orgasms with a quickie?

It is entirely possible for a woman to reach orgasm during a quickie, but some women may not. The type of sex, positioning, clitoral stimulation, your mood, and the effort your partner makes to bring you to orgasm all matter when it comes to reaching the big O.

To increase your chances of climaxing, have your partner stimulate your nipples and clitoris with his hands or tongue, tell your partner what you want, touch yourself during intercourse, and fill your mind with images that drive you wild.

Before long, you’ll be such a pro that you’ll want to share your secrets with your women friends, teaching them how to have a quickie that ends with a deeply intense, heavenly orgasm!