Watching the same movie over and over gets boring. Your sex life is the same way. If you do the same positions repeatedly, it’s going to get old. Changing it up adds interest to lovemaking and certain positions will stimulate you in new ways. Spice up your sex life with these positions:
a. April Showers— The receiving partner will rest their forearms on the shower wall, while slightly spreading their legs, keeping their knees bent, and sticking their butt out. The penetrating partner enters from behind. Make sure you’re both under the water and if you have a removable shower head, receivers with a vulva can use it to simultaneously stimulate their clitoris.
b. Forming a T— Your partner lies on their side while you lie on your back, perpendicular to each other. With your legs draped over top of them, guide them inside you. This position allows for full-body views and great clit play.
c. Criss Cross— Lay on the bed or a table (basically anything about hip height with your partner). As they stand and enter you, cross your legs and let them rest on your chest. You can play around with how tight you have them crossed to explore the different sensations.
d. The Bridge– This can be done for penetrative or oral sex. The receiving partner will form a glute bridge. (Glute bridge = Lay down on your back with your knees bent and your feet flat on the ground. Your feet should be hip-width apart and your arms laid straight at your sides. Keeping shoulders flush on the ground, squeeze your glutes and raise your hips as high as you can go without arching your back.) While you hold the bridge, your partner will enter. The elevation allows your partner to go deeper and puts your vagina in a different position. If holding the bridge is tiring, you can always prop pillows under your backside to create the perfect angle.
7. Refresh Your Fun
Springing into a better sex life means springing into a new way of sexual thinking. SEX SHOULD BE FUN! It’s not a checklist item. It should be something you want to do. When something is fun, we want to do it. Here are some ways to make it fun again…
a. Add Adventure — You’re going for the element of naughty and rebellious. Have sex on the living room floor or in a secluded meadow. Or maybe in a pool?
b. Add Romance — Spoil each other with poems, flowers, or favorites. Leave love notes in their lunchbox or pants pockets. Woo each other like you’re dating all over again.
c. Add Playfulness — Turn back the dial and be kiddish. Laugh together. Try having fun with feathers or taking a bubble bath. You can even incorporate props like blindfolds or swings.
It’s time to have your own, Meet Joe Black moment. Put these spring tips into practice, and watch your sex life blossom. You owe it to your relationship and to yourself.
“SEX SHOULD BE FUN! It’s not a checklist item. It should be something you want to do.”